

Living Single in a Not-So-Single World While Managing Post-Traumatic Stress And Trying to Move Forward From a Traumatic Past. A Blog That Speaks To Women Like Me.
In the military, alcohol "comes with the territory" as the saying goes. For most anyway. In the Navy especially. Sailors - and the military in general - have a harsh reputation with alcohol. Mostly centered around negative connotations of irresponsible and erratic behavior that follow those under the influence who can't handle their liquor. I've had my fair share of stupid moments in uniform. Our motto: "Work hard, party hard." That's how we rolled.
However - that is another story for another time. If you are a beer connoisseur and like to try different craft brews and travel to different areas to do so - I highly recommend the Piney River Brewery.
This past weekend, I was hanging out at a local brewery in the middle of nowhere, Missouri. There are two locations: the Piney River Tap Room on Historic Route 66 in Waynesville, Missouri and today, at the source of it all - the Piney River Brewery BARn in Brycus, Missouri.
This brewery is a gem of a place despite being located in the middle of nowhere. Founded in 2010, it is now the pride and joy of sleepy small town, Missouri. Using locally harvested ingredients and water from the Ozarks, beer lovers everywhere can now add this to their list of beer places to embark upon - a unique Ozarks experience you don't want to miss!
This was not just a weekend getaway on a whim, but also in the continuance of camaraderie - of what we call the "Sisterhood," or in the most common term, "Brotherhood." We haven't known each other long. As a matter of fact, we met by way of our counselor who coordinates our support group centered around women veterans who have a history with Post-Traumatic Stress and/or Military Sexual Trauma. It took one meeting to create the bond we have and now we are sisters-in-arms forever.
In the military community, the sisterhood or brotherhood is defined by the companionship and bond of one's "Battle Buddy" on the left and the right. When we are in a hostile environment or off-duty and out somewhere "on the town," we are paired with another for shared accountability, teamwork, safety and conduct. It is known as "The Buddy System." We always go out by two or more. It is a connection that spans the test of time and space. It is a bond that is only understood by those who have served.
We might have put away our uniforms, but the discipline, training, deployments, experiences, lifestyle and memories are with us forever.
In this manner - as three women bonded together in the camaraderie of our shared service to the oath we had sworn by so many years ago, we continue to stand by our values and the love we have for one another, for our nation, for our families and for the flag.
In case you haven't been told lately,
You matter.
YOU are ENOUGH.
You have INFLUENCE.
You are a GENIUS.
You have a contribution to make.
YOU have a gift that others NEED.
You are the change.
Your actions DEFINE your impact.
YOU MATTER.
(Source: Angela Maiers, "You Matter Manifesto")It is 0324 in the morning and I can't sleep. I messed up. Gave my heart away too soon. Like a damn fool. Now, I'm going through emo...